If you really want others to love you, look at yourself in the mirror and try to see yourself the way the world sees you. Write down things you like about yourself, and things you don't like about you. Try to work on those things you don't like, because those are the things people notice immediately, and it turns then off right away.
Another thing you need is behavior modification. Learn how to be cheerful and polite. If you have attitude problem, it is time to get ridge of it, because nobody wants to deal with somebody that have attitude.
Also, you need to be a good listener. Pay attention to what people are saying to you. Be careful how you talk to people. It is not what you said, but how you said it. If you say something stupid, around people, they will always remember you for that one mistake.
Another thing is trust. Let your word means something. Try to be truthful to people. I have not seen anybody who does not like to deal with a reliable someone. When people know that you're trust worthy, they will respect you for that, and may develop interest in you, knowing that their secret is safe with you.
Learn how to respect others. Accept people the way they are. You don't have to like them, but don't be judgmental. The least but not the last. Treat people the way you expect others to treat you. It does not cost that much to be nice to others. Why do I say all these things? We all know that the cost of a true love never runs smooth, and that is why, I will encourage you to look before you leap.
Another thing you need is behavior modification. Learn how to be cheerful and polite. If you have attitude problem, it is time to get ridge of it, because nobody wants to deal with somebody that have attitude.
Also, you need to be a good listener. Pay attention to what people are saying to you. Be careful how you talk to people. It is not what you said, but how you said it. If you say something stupid, around people, they will always remember you for that one mistake.
Another thing is trust. Let your word means something. Try to be truthful to people. I have not seen anybody who does not like to deal with a reliable someone. When people know that you're trust worthy, they will respect you for that, and may develop interest in you, knowing that their secret is safe with you.
Learn how to respect others. Accept people the way they are. You don't have to like them, but don't be judgmental. The least but not the last. Treat people the way you expect others to treat you. It does not cost that much to be nice to others. Why do I say all these things? We all know that the cost of a true love never runs smooth, and that is why, I will encourage you to look before you leap.
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